Permanent marking of your body for the relationship. How many have done this and how many would consider it? This could be as little as a design or even words .

i have considered it..... when i was with my exhusband. i was also gonna get the bdsm symbol tat on me most recently. found out its for the tops, but someone still wanted me to have it done. i havnt.

Whom ever told you that was wrong I know several submissives/switches who have it. It was worked into a design I was going to have the first time I was collared. I didn't get the ink cause it didn't feel right.

now i have a question myself...... does being collared have to be specificaly around the neck, or can it be a piece of jewelry that seems it just cant be taken off? is it something only when your with the top?

My collar isfold Hi am to'd and I also wear a piece of rope around my left wrist. A collaring can be anything you and the other person decide it is. Ultimately the collaring is a mental thing. It's the connection alot like a marriage.